Talk More, Type Less

We are constantly available on a plethora of communication channels at the same time. But are we truly connecting with others?

Well, connecting, for sure.

But conversations matter more, according to the book "Digital Minimalism" by Cal Newport. And we have a lot to improve in that area.

Connection vs conversation

Cal describes connections as interactions that occur through digital media. Such as liking 👍 someone's baby pictures instead of taking a visit.

Or commenting on a post, instead of giving a call.

They might seem like acts of kindness but are actually low-effort ways to keep up with others' lives without fostering a sense of true understanding or closeness.

On the other hand, conversation is a richer, more engaging form of communication. Conversation typically involves face-to-face 👥, uninterrupted dialogue where participants can pick up on non-verbal cues and invest more emotionally and cognitively. Newport argues that conversations are crucial for true relational depth and are much more fulfilling.

But we live in the XXI. century

So, of course, we should take advantage of modern technologies 🤳
Staying up-to-date with the lives of friends and family who live far away is easier now than ever.

When COVID hit, I got separated from my friends–even my boyfriend–for several months, but they could stay as part of my life, thanks to social media.

Just try to be very picky on how and with who do you connect.
And always prioritize richer communication forms, even if through a digital channel.

Pick up the phone, or make a video call. It will be much more fulfilling for both parties.

Don't treat connection as an alternative to conversation but as a supporter of it.